For New Brides, before its too late

We women have to learn to Be Strong to Any Man. Don't over compensate, don't bend over backwards to breaking point. Know what you want and what you like. Stand your ground. Else men will step all over you. All men are the same. They Appreciate Women who does not over compensate. They like a Confident Woman who puts herself first instead of him first. A woman who Does Not Take His Bullshit. A WOMAN HE CAN'T FIGURE OUT.

 Angie..you're so lovely..(busy as a mom and working for the UN)

Please Empower yourselves before its too late. Be Confident of yourself, Make yourself Independent of any man, and Feel Secure in who you are.

*Turns off computer and picks up phone*
((Ring, ring))
Me: B, My car battery died? What to do? ...Ok, you buy me the new battery and fix it for me ya. And on your way home, also please get me sanitary pads and black seed oil supplements from the kedai runcit kat bawah tu..thank u so much sweetie.

You have to make your man feel needed (busy fulfilling your needs) . Independent lah sangat! hah! *rolling eyes*

Pinjam bridal magazine kau?

My friend L sibuk nak kahwin this November, with all the wedding preparations..its only a month away. I'm sure she's super excited. Nak pinjam my Ratu Sehari mags http://www.ratusehari.com.my/main.asp, wanna look at the wedding dais designs so she can show her dais designer. I get it, coz I too tied the knot last June (4 months ago), get the feeling excited and all..But the wedding event is just one day, or a few days (including solemnization & bridegroom's reception)..and it seems so sekejap..it just flies by. The preparation is tedious but fun, and is more fun than the real actual wedding itself . haha. We brides sangat poyo prepare, last last kahwin, and then...banyak challenges ahead to face..Kena seek help and advice, join marriage forums, go for counselling..For many  , the wedding is such a big deal, for me, (a minority ) its tiring and unnecessary headache. I wouldn't want to do it all over again. For my brothers if they wanna get married, I advised them siap siap, You go book 2 tables at the Chinese restaraunt. That's it. 
Seronok la tengok my friend running here and there trying to get the preparations in order, see her anticipation, so I won't burst her happy, if a bit disillusioned bubble. Because marriage is never what you think it is or expect it to be.